Tuesday, February 21, 2012

I feel uncomfortable and get very mad when my BF watches movies like american pie cause all the girl nudity..?

I know this sounds really dumb and he doesn't watch it either he knows it makes me feel weird but does anyone else feel this way? and what are some different ways I can think about it cause I understand it's just a movie. How can I tone it down? I feel uncomfortable and get very mad when my BF watches movies like american pie cause all the girl nudity..?I feel the same way. A victoria secret commerical can come on the telly and my boyfriend turns his head. He knows I don't want him to watch movies like that, and he agrees and says he doesn't want to watch them either. Just like he would rather me not watch movies that have naked guys in them. I don't think it's weird. just a matter of preference. Some girls are okay with their guys watching that...some girls aren't. Personally, I'm not. And that's okay because he doesn't want to watch it.I feel uncomfortable and get very mad when my BF watches movies like american pie cause all the girl nudity..?
Thanks for your answer to my question. It was very helpful. I thought i'd repay you ^__^ Firstly, you are not alone! I am exactly the same with this sorta thing. I was watching that movie Hostel with my bf ages ago, and let me say.. Half the movie was nudity (personally I got it thinking it was going to just be blood and guts the whole way through, so I wouldn't have to worry about no nudity, but I was wrong -.-) Anyways, I noticed my guy was "enjoying" it... AND I WAS LAYING RIGHT NEXT TO HIM! He wasn't even saying anything, he was so quiet and so fixated onto the TV! I felt so mad and angry, I just wanted to walk out of the room and not speak to him for the rest of the night. I too, relise that these are only movies, but it's the actual concept of what's happening, be real or not. So I don't know, try and do what I try to do next time... If we're laying down, I usually just close my eyes and not watch - pretending i'm asleep. It does work for abit, cuz you're not watching it, so you don't know what's happening. Other than that, I guess it's something we just gotta deal with, we can't win %26gt;___%26lt;I feel uncomfortable and get very mad when my BF watches movies like american pie cause all the girl nudity..?i know how you feel, i'm the same way with my boyfriend, i don't even like for him to watch shows with any kind of nudity in them, i know its weird, i just try not to think about it and watch the movies to, just think about how much he loves you, and if it does bother you just try to ignore it, thats what i do. Good luck :)
It is normal with guys to want to watch sexy women, naked or not. It is in their nature. For as long as he is not addicted to it or spends more time watching it than spending time with you, i guess you just let him be. Anyway, it is just a movie and he is just enjoying the view.I feel uncomfortable and get very mad when my BF watches movies like american pie cause all the girl nudity..?Guys are very visual. It's just how they are. When I was still dating my ex, he told me how he loves to watch those women's beach volleyball players in the olympics.



I got a bit mad, but then I realized that shoot, he's 15. Is he going to hop on a plane to Beijing and get their numbers? No. Same with your boyfriend. What matters is that he's not saying things like "She's way hotter than you." That would be really mean. I doubt he's comparing you to them in any way though. LIke I said, it's a guy thing.I feel uncomfortable and get very mad when my BF watches movies like american pie cause all the girl nudity..?
i feel the exact same way with my bf.

i don't want him seeing any other girls naked or even in a bikini.

just think about the fact that they are on tv and he will more than likely never meet them.

and the fact that he is with you doesn't hurt to think about either.

=]
i was with my boyfriend the other night and at Womenizer video with Britney Spears came on and there were parts were she was like sorta nudie! and im like WTF! cuz im not the skinnyiest girl but i thought to myself.... he would never have a chance with britney SPEARS! she is CRAZYYYY!!! hahah then i looked at him and laughed!



i do get upset wen he see stuff like that... but i have learned how to deal with it.... thats how guys are.... =DI feel uncomfortable and get very mad when my BF watches movies like american pie cause all the girl nudity..?
i think youre a bit inseure. but everyone is sometimes.

nothings gonna happen if he watches it. ur being a bit paranoid. so take a deep breath and let him do his thingg.

he osnt gonna drop you after seeing a movie :)
i think ur getting jellous at something that doesnt really matter. its a movie that is just for entertainment. in the end who are they dating, you or the tv?
I use to get that way w/ my bf. I told him he can't watch that stuff around me and he doesn't. Maybe you should try that. Good luck.

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